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Apathy
Nov 22, 2004 21:52:11 GMT -5
Post by The Awesome One on Nov 22, 2004 21:52:11 GMT -5
That might just be you though. Different people tend to deal with their problems in different ways. Some people would prefer Apathy to dealing with the problem 'cause their not ready to deal with something or face something because they already have so much to deal with.
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Apathy
Nov 23, 2004 10:32:01 GMT -5
Post by Seraphim on Nov 23, 2004 10:32:01 GMT -5
There is nothing so bad that the human spirit can not handle it, we just think we can't.
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Apathy
Nov 23, 2004 20:15:17 GMT -5
Post by The Awesome One on Nov 23, 2004 20:15:17 GMT -5
If the human spirit could take something so bad then why is it that so many people commit suicide? Maybe, it's 'cause they couldn't handle the problem and wanted to get rid of the pain in a way other than apathy. Just a hunch though.
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Apathy
Nov 24, 2004 15:19:20 GMT -5
Post by Seraphim on Nov 24, 2004 15:19:20 GMT -5
Most people who commit suicide have no self estem and have been told all their life that they were weak, and not good enough. If we're told a lie long enough, we start to believe it. If someone tells you everyday that you are weak and you can't handle anything, then yeah, eventually we're going to believe it and give up. Thats when suicides occure.
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Apathy
Nov 24, 2004 21:48:52 GMT -5
Post by The Awesome One on Nov 24, 2004 21:48:52 GMT -5
That's not the only reason for suicide. Tell me if a person asked you for your advice. To tell them which would be better, apathy or suicide, and ONLY apathy and suicide. You wouldn't tell them suicide would you? And if you were to substitute suicide with cutting or hurting yourself, I'm betting you still would pick apathy over that. I know you'll probably say that you'll recommend help, but what if they didn't want to look for help? And those were thier only option? What would you pick?
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Apathy
Nov 24, 2004 22:17:54 GMT -5
Post by Seraphim on Nov 24, 2004 22:17:54 GMT -5
I hate it when people do that, susan does it to me all the time "would you rather I smoke, or do crake?" You can't shut off every other option, that isn't in your power, none of us have that power, that situation would never come up because there is ALWAYS another way. Being Numb sucks! It hurts everyone and to fight for the right to be cold...it doesn't make any sense...I can't put it into words. Its no good, its never good to ignore something, its not going to go away. yeah, you should take things one at a time, but you can't ignore the line.
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Apathy
Nov 26, 2004 16:45:15 GMT -5
Post by The Awesome One on Nov 26, 2004 16:45:15 GMT -5
I'M NOT TELLING THEM TO IGNORE IT FOREVER! And you can't say something like that will never happen because some people don't wan to get help, their ashamed. And if I were them I probably wouldn't want either if people go around talking like you and say to get help and to rely on God and everything will be alright. No offense, but not everyone is obsessed with religion and God's will.
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Apathy
Nov 26, 2004 17:09:01 GMT -5
Post by Seraphim on Nov 26, 2004 17:09:01 GMT -5
They don't have to turn to God, when did I say that? I obviously think they should, but no matter where they turn for help its better than shuting down.
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Apathy
Nov 27, 2004 17:29:15 GMT -5
Post by The Awesome One on Nov 27, 2004 17:29:15 GMT -5
But what if they don't want help? What if they think they can solve it by themselves? If they won't get help and they've had enough of the problem it's better to take a break from it for a while instead of hurting yourself. Like I said, it's not the best thing to do, but atleast it's something.
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Apathy
Dec 2, 2004 17:21:14 GMT -5
Post by Seraphim on Dec 2, 2004 17:21:14 GMT -5
If they are the type who think they can do everything by themselves even if they do come back to it odds are they'll just have to keep shuting down.
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Apathy
Dec 3, 2004 19:30:12 GMT -5
Post by The Awesome One on Dec 3, 2004 19:30:12 GMT -5
It's still better than ending it right then and there.
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Apathy
Dec 3, 2004 20:59:10 GMT -5
Post by The Weak's End on Dec 3, 2004 20:59:10 GMT -5
after reading the rant and all of this thread, I've come to the conclusion that its ok to be apathetic about some things....gay marriges being one of them....why should anyone care about it??.....
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Apathy
Dec 3, 2004 21:01:36 GMT -5
Post by The Awesome One on Dec 3, 2004 21:01:36 GMT -5
Exactly, the only reason I care is because people treat them like trash because of it. It's such a big issue but at the same time why can't we just let them be?
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Apathy
Dec 3, 2004 21:09:26 GMT -5
Post by The Weak's End on Dec 3, 2004 21:09:26 GMT -5
Most people who commit suicide have no self estem and have been told all their life that they were weak, and not good enough. If we're told a lie long enough, we start to believe it. If someone tells you everyday that you are weak and you can't handle anything, then yeah, eventually we're going to believe it and give up. Thats when suicides occure. sorry to post twice but this bothered me, Ive been told Im weak several times, but I dont believe it, for I am not weak, you yourself have told me Im strong....I have 4 suicide attempts in my history....so just stop with the suicide thing......I have other reasons for it....ones that you dont know, and might never know...I only trust certain people with it, and you succ, arent one of them now.....
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Apathy
Dec 3, 2004 21:12:55 GMT -5
Post by The Awesome One on Dec 3, 2004 21:12:55 GMT -5
.....*steps back from the battle lines......goes to use the washroom*
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