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Post by Lord MIW on Mar 23, 2005 21:58:42 GMT -5
Ever get confused by a sudden change in feelings? For some reason I've lost my dislike of people in general and specific members of the human race. My ex, most know the story... I don't hate her. I'm even talking to her, and laughing/joking. Funny... eh? I don't think it's a problem, it's just weird.
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 24, 2005 11:41:46 GMT -5
Feels good huh? Once I figured out how to forgive people my hate for people disapeared. When you stop holding people's past against them, they're alot easier to be around.
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Post by Lord MIW on Mar 24, 2005 16:07:04 GMT -5
I didn't forgive them though.
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 24, 2005 19:59:25 GMT -5
How can you hold something against them and not hate them? That doesn't work. Somewhere along the line you must of let it go. Either that or you went numb. If there is another way, explain because I've never seen anyone not forgive someone and also not hate them.
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Post by Lord MIW on Mar 24, 2005 21:02:31 GMT -5
I don't hold it against them though. I realise why they did it... heck, I realise why everyone maybe acts some way and not another. It doesn't mean I forgive them for it, I just understand the motives. Holding it against them isn't in my interests.
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 25, 2005 11:16:20 GMT -5
Then you have forgiven it. Forgiving it doesn't mean saying that it was okay, its just understanding why and letting it rot in the past where it belongs. To not forgive something is to drag it around with you and hide behind it when ever you see the person. You forgave it.
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Post by Lord MIW on Mar 26, 2005 11:16:15 GMT -5
Forgive means to stop being angry and resentful towards someone. Hmm, guess I have then. Ahh well. I miss my fiery rage.
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 26, 2005 17:01:57 GMT -5
;D Why do you miss it?
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Post by Lord MIW on Mar 27, 2005 7:43:32 GMT -5
It was fun while it lasted. And less stressful.
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 27, 2005 11:23:14 GMT -5
How is it less stressful to hold a grudge?
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Post by Lord MIW on Mar 27, 2005 12:58:14 GMT -5
Ya don't have to be as philosophical. ;D
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 27, 2005 20:39:08 GMT -5
;D Sometimes I think you try too hard.
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Post by Lord MIW on Mar 30, 2005 19:36:39 GMT -5
I'm Lord MIW, I have to.
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Post by The Awesome One on Mar 30, 2005 20:26:49 GMT -5
He's right about that. We expect him to be all great and funny.
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 30, 2005 20:54:17 GMT -5
True *holds gun to head* not to put on any pressure or anything...
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