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Post by Seraphim on Mar 11, 2005 22:28:41 GMT -5
So, I don't exactly know how to handle this situation. Okay, there is this guy who goes to my church, he's nice and all, but I am in no way shape or form interested in him. I bearly like him as a friend and he asked me to go to lunch with him last Wednesday, after almost accidently saying yes, I explained that I need to focus on my relationship with God, my school work and getting through the whole Dane situation. So today he asked me to go to foster freeze with him.  How am I supposed to get it across to him that I am waiting for Dane and have NO interest in being around him on a date? Its weird because he isn't acctually asking me to be his girlfriend, but he's asking me on dates that I don't want to go on, but I'm way too nice to just say, "No, bug off." What can I do? |
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Post by The Weak's End on Mar 11, 2005 22:34:47 GMT -5
put it into dummy terms.....you know, just flat out tell him...
and if that doesnt work....then I dunno...
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 11, 2005 23:09:58 GMT -5
I thought I was putting it into dummy terms when I said, "The whole Dane thing isn't over and I'm not interested."
I said something to that effect...
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Post by The Weak's End on Mar 12, 2005 15:02:16 GMT -5
wow, this guys an idiot.....lol....
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 12, 2005 20:21:24 GMT -5
 that crossed my mind too. He may be hearing what he wants to hear.
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Post by The Weak's End on Mar 12, 2005 20:35:44 GMT -5
that whay all guys hear....
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 13, 2005 11:29:24 GMT -5
*thinks about it*....yeah.
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Post by The Weak's End on Mar 13, 2005 14:39:25 GMT -5
yes...its so sad, but true...lol...
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Post by Lord MIW on Mar 17, 2005 4:45:51 GMT -5
If you're the object of a guys first crush, then you're sunk. Their passion levels are through the roof, and they're completely blind to the harsh realities.
Even if you tell him there's someone else, he'll still be after you. Tell him you're a junkie and he'll want to get you through rehab. The only thing you can do is tell him no, never give in to his demands, and prepare to lose a mate.
That's life, folks.
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 17, 2005 11:05:18 GMT -5
I'm not his first crush and some weeks, I'm not even his crush.
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Post by Lord MIW on Mar 18, 2005 13:09:01 GMT -5
Ya one of his first few, and he's still young. Point still stands. Also explains why he's non-commital to a crush.
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 18, 2005 18:37:39 GMT -5
Yeah, he asked me out again today. But this time I just said no. When he asked me why I told him I just wasn't interested. If he doesn't catch the hint now no one can help him.  He takes being shot down very well. |
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Post by The Weak's End on Mar 18, 2005 20:21:13 GMT -5
lol...thats what I found works best...
one time this guy came up to me and said "I lost my number, can I have yours"...lol...I just laughed in his face... ;D
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Post by Seraphim on Mar 19, 2005 0:22:03 GMT -5
haha! I went to my school's talent show tonight and I think my friend Matt invented a new kind of pick up line. He had the entire crowd raise they're right hands and repeat after him, he made up promise that we wouldn't bum rush the stage and beat him up, but that the single female could rush the stage and get his number.  It was great. He then preceeded to play a medlie of pop songs to a three cord 'magic pattern' to which you can sing any pop song that ever existed. |
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Post by The Weak's End on Mar 19, 2005 15:44:49 GMT -5
lol...I cant wait for my school talent show...cuz guess what I do??...lol...I bring the whole band along to school and we do like 1 or 2 songs...nothing big...we came in 4th place last year...it was fun...
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How am I supposed to get it across to him that I am waiting for Dane and have NO interest in being around him on a date? Its weird because he isn't acctually asking me to be his girlfriend, but he's asking me on dates that I don't want to go on, but I'm way too nice to just say, "No, bug off."
